!B-Annes Blabbergasts!
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Cheating
Step 1. This week I would like to talk about the stages of cheating! Do you know how hard it is to keep that secret going? Especially if you just only tell one person!! You know that pers on is just going to tell one person, who is just going to tell one more person, and before you know it…….YOU ARE BUSTED.
Step 2. Now this is where u find yourself lying to everyone, everywhere, all the time. And for What? To remain in a relationship, that apparently you are NOT happy to be in to begin with ~ otherwise you wouldn’t be cheating.
Step 3. This is where you should ask yourself WHY are you doing this!! Are you feeling insecure about yourself? Afraid you can’t live up to the standards of what your mate is expecting? Or are you just a plain ol’ selfish jealous soul that doesn’t know how to commit to one person? Are you that scared of commitment? Do you have trust issues? I’m sure there are many reasons that will lead you down the road of infeldelity!! Some that I probably haven’t even mentioned!
Step 4. Take a self inventory! That’s right……get yourself a piece of paper! Make two columns. Label colmumn 1 “Positives of this relationship” and label column 2 “Negatives of this relationship.” While you are doing this, I’m sure you will have some sort of brainstorm (that you can jot down also) of how much you love, or are in love with this person!!
You will be amazed at what you will find out about yourself, as well as what you will find out about your mate!
The only advice I can give you, is don’t give up on someone before you really think it through!! Because once they are gone, you may never have the chance to get them back!
Don’t give up on the miracle before it happens!!!!
Yours truly,
B-Annes Blabbergasts Biatch!